Yesterday was my birthday and I turned 39. It’s the start of my last year in my thirties! Some people feel gloomy on their birthdays, but not me. I love birthdays, and also, I don’t want to be dead, which is the alternative to aging. Bring on the age, I say! One step closer to shuffleboard, slacks, plastic jewelry, and sexually harassing young male orderlies in the Home. I also think that birthdays are the day to party, caramba, fiesta, forever, and to also wear tiaras.
Thanks to my friend Rebecca and her girls for bringing it, tiara-style.
With the vantage point of being 39 and one day, I give you my list of 39 random thoughts about being 39.
1) I like the way “39” sounds. Not quite middle-aged, but old enough to OWN these forehead wrinkles.
2) I feel way more healthy and attractive than I did twenty years ago.
3) I’m confident enough to rock a bikini, which I didn’t do twenty years ago.
4) Still, I would like the girls to be more like they were twenty years ago, if I’m being honest. Gravity and age has been hard on my poor deflated rack.
Ah, youth. Remember drinking before going to the bar? It was all about economics.
5) This would be why I’m a Victoria Secret devotee. I need all the engineering I can get.
6) I think I have better style now than I did twenty years ago, but that might be due to the fact that twenty years ago I was wearing high waisted jeans and bodysuits.
And puffy pirate shirts.
7) Letting my hair go more than six weeks between colours is disastrous, not only for the inch long grey roots, but because the rest of my hair resembles orange straw.
8) Every morning I check my chin for long black hairs.
9) Despite checking every morning, every once in a while I will notice a one-inch black hair under my chin that wasn’t there the day before.
10) Although the whole world drools over Don Draper, the man I find most attractive on Mad Men is Henry Francis. And also, disturbingly, Jim Cutler.
11) In a similar vein, I find Mike the most attractive man on Breaking Bad.
12) I feel disappointed in a motherly sort of way when I think of Jesse. I do not find him attractive in the least.
13) I recently referred to Chris Evans as a “very nice looking young man”.
14) It’s been 25 years since my first viewing of Say Anything, and I still kind of identify with Diane Court. I AM a show pony, after all.
15) While at the salon on Friday, getting my grey roots and orange straw hair coloured, I read People magazine and realized – not for the first time – that I don’t know any of today’s hot new celebrities. Celebrities featured in People that I did recognize: George Clooney, Jennifer Aniston, and Boo the Pomeranian.
16) I am older than Sally Albright, Mrs. Robinson, and Princess Diana when she died.
17) Of all fictional movie characters, I most identify with Sally Albright, even if I have a few years on her. This is especially true of the way I order food in restaurants. “On the side” is a very big thing for me.
18) My husband took the winter tires off my minivan and put on the fanciest rims you have ever seen on a minivan. My ride has been pimped, as they say. It’s like I’m having a midlife crisis, minivan style.
19) Because of these hot new rims, I feel like I’m going to be the bitchin-est mom at pickup. I already kind of look like this guy when I’ve got the beats going, but with a minivan.
20) Damn. It feels good to be a gangster.
21) My husband says I am the easiest person to buy gifts for, because I’m hysterically excited at just the thought of gifts.
Presents presents presents!
PRESENTS!
22) This was exemplified by my squealing excitement at the receipt of a dish towel from my children. But then, it was this dish towel, so that’s pretty amazing.
Easy as Pi! There’s even a graphic of a double cone. I’m sure there are some reading this who knew me in high school, and so “Conics Goddess” may have some meaning for those readers.
23) Last year I received a dehydrator and this year I received a juicer, and I am absolutely thrilled to receive kitchen appliances as gifts.
But then, I guess I’ve always been excited about receiving kitchen appliances.
24) I am old enough to see not only fashions from my childhood back in style, but also from my teen years. I’m too old to wear them though, so I guess I will leave the bubble skirts and gladiator sandals to the young people.
25) I use terms like “young people”.
26) When I read magazines that have those “Beauty At Any Age” articles, I flip to “In Your 40’s” because the advice for “In Your 30’s” feels a bit irrelevant. I feel like my fertile years are greatly in the past (knock wood).
27) I cannot blame my children anymore if I’m tired.
28) I cannot watch movies that are sad, scary, or violent.
29) I did, however, recently watch Love Story on a plane, and was struck by my teenage resemblance to a young Ali MacGraw. It must be the eyebrows.
29) I spend a great deal of effort plucking those eyebrows because these days, they would make me look less like Ali MacGraw and more like Martin Scorsese. See also: chin hair.
30) I can remember the song lyrics to practically every song I’ve ever heard, yet I need to write down “put out garbage” every second Monday.
31) I feel vaguely shocked when I hear of people going out at nine pm, even though I know I once did that too.
32) To me, a perfect evening sounds like watching Downton Abbey in my pajamas with a bottle of wine.
33) Only on weekends though, because I had one measly drink on Sunday night and my Monday morning yoga practice felt like I had turned into the Tin Man.
34) Speaking of which, I’ve never watched The Wizard of Oz the whole way through because it freaked me out as a child and it freaks me out now. Tornadoes, flying monkeys, general creepiness.
35) I actually said to my husband, when we were spring cleaning and getting rid of old toys, that “maybe we should keep that for our grandchildren”.
36) I don’t actually want grandchildren until my kids are 30 or so.
37) I point out pretty girls to my husband, who tells me that it is not normal to tell your husband “Look at that girl! She’s hot!”
38) I have friends who really get me, and every day I am awash in appreciation for them. You know who you are, you ladies who make me laugh and smile and think about things, you who I see daily and you who I only see a few times a year but it’s as if no time has passed, you who read my blog and you who try my recipes. I love you all! xoxo
39) Every day, I can’t believe how lucky I am. My family, my life, it all feels charmed. I’m filled with gratitude for every year and I’m excited for the years to come.
Lucky, lucky me!
