Kondo-ing My Life, The Clothing Edition

So here we are in the very last week of summer vacation, and finally, FINALLY the weather is lovely. Although it looks like it’s all going to hell on the long weekend, so hurrah for Calgary for living up to its usual weather standards. Well, at least it isn’t forecasted to SNOW. At least, I think it isn’t.

The boys have reached the happy stage where they are busy planning their own social lives and I am the cheerful chauffeur/ casual supervisor. I actually really love hearing the incredibly-loud sounds of tween boys in the house, and I know that sounds sarcastic but I am in earnest. I hope they always want to bring their friends over to Hang Out.

Meanwhile, when they are off gallivanting in the neighbourhood and hanging out drinking slurpees in the back yard, I have been continuing with my quest to Spark Joy In My House By Getting Rid Of All The Crap.

Kondo

Also: Sparking Joy By Drinking Beer.

I do not think I am exaggerating by saying that my life has truly been changed. By the Magic of Tidying Up. Holy moly, I have always prided myself on having a very clean and organized house, but I have been in this house for 16 years and there are some spots that have become dumping grounds/ cemeteries for odd items. Things that I never really wanted to deal with, I have been Dealing With. At this time I am up to 25 bags and boxes for donation, 5 bags of garbage (eek) and I don’t even know how much recycling.

Here’s the thing, though: my closet was the least of it. Remember several months ago when I reorganized my closet and I got rid of nothing whatsoever? Well, this time around I kept thinking, KonMari-like, wouldn’t it be wonderful if every clothing item you owned brought you joy? Armed with nothing but a grim determination and also a repression of feelings about fleeting time and the end of summer, I emptied all my drawers containing tops and sweaters on the floor.

Tops

This pile is ONLY sweaters and tees. It does not include my yoga wear, beach wear, or exercise gear. I went through everything, earnestly and whole-heartedly. Here is the “keep” pile.

Keep

And here is the “donate” pile:

NoGo

*NOTE* I am keeping Barkley. He just was incredibly confused and probably thought I was packing for vacation or something, and so needed to block me in my room.

The take-away from this exercise is twofold: a) my clothing really does Spark Joy, and b) I have a lot of clothes. By the time I finished going through pants, dresses, pajamas, scarves, shoes, boots, yoga clothes, and swimwear, I had two small/ medium boxes full of items for donation. So of my 25 bags and boxes, my clothing was less than ten percent of that.

That felt good, because I do love clothes and shopping, and I liked that I mostly have purchased things that I really loved. A few items that I donated didn’t fit properly anymore, or didn’t suit me as well as I’d hoped, but as a general rule, my shopping habits have been decent and not overly wasteful.

BUT.

I still have a lot of clothes, and so in the spirit of September, Fresh Starts, and New (School) Year Resolutions, I have one big goal, and if I Blog It I Will Have To Stick To It.

Are you ready?

I am not going to buy myself a single item of clothing until my birthday next April.

Eeek! For me, this is a big deal, but I’m going to stick to it. The next time I see something I like I will a) go shopping in my own closet and will probably find something similar, or b) put it on a Christmas wish list, since my husband and kids like to have specific items to look for when it comes to gift shopping for me.

Mental note: keep Christmas wish list small, or the point of this exercise will be lost.

Much, much more to come on my Personal Growth From Kondo-ing (someone is staring at you in Personal Growth*) but for now I have peppermint fudge ice cream to make, kids to feed, and a giant stack of old magazines to purge. xo

*Big kudos to whoever can name that movie. Hint: it is my all-time favourite.

Comments

  1. I think the equivalent of this for me would be not buying any new books until my spring birthday. I can go a really long time without buying clothes, which isn’t to say I don’t have too many because I almost never throw anything out, either. I could easily get rid of half my clothes, and probably should.

    • nicoleboyhouse says:

      I’m also not buying any books (although I usually get a stack from my MIL for Xmas – I keep a list and that’s what she gets me, it’s awesome). I’m trying to use the library more too – trying really hard to cut down consumption!

  2. When Harry Met Sally.

    Can I have my Kondo on the side?

    • nicoleboyhouse says:

      “On the side is a very big thing for you.”

      Favourite movie ever. Also, the character that I most identify with in my real life (“I’m too structured, I’m completely closed off!” “But in a good way!”)

      • I love that movie so much! 😀 Our local video store (yes I live in the kind of place that still has (er – had) a video store) is closing and “When Harry Met Sally” was there yesterday. They are liquidating. (Everything must go!). I was *thiiiiis* close to buying it. I might need to go back. Like, now.

  3. I just have this horrible suspicion that if I tried to Kondo my closet I would end up weeping in a fetal position, but then I never really have been able to pride myself on having a clean and organized house, so good for you. I’ve gotten a little better – I was able to lay hands on all the documents I needed for Angus’s driver’s license and health card renewal in under ten minutes. So maybe I should try it. Oh, but I’m afraid.

    • nicoleboyhouse says:

      There was a point at which I looked at all the CD’s, papers, and old towels scattered everywhere and I thought…why am I doing this? Will I need to just burn the house down and start over? Then I got all philosophical and “the only way out is through.” I made it to the other side!

  4. I use that line from When Harry Met Sally more than most people would probably think was reasonable. Now I may need to watch that movie again.

    ANYWAY, I kondo’d the heck out of Oldest’s bureau this weekend because he’s grown 3 inches since June (!!!) and almost none of his clothes fit him anymore (related I just spent an obscene amount of $$ replacing his very basic wardrobe, but I digress). This is going to have to satisfy my admittedly large desire to tidy because the thing about my clothing is that although I do get rid of quite a bit of it regularly, I still have quite a bit more for two reasons: (1) I’ve remained relatively the same size (except for pregnancies etc) since the 90s; (2) I work in a conservative job so the work clothing I buy is relatively expensive but classic (boring) so I just keep wearing it and adding to it. Those two things mean I’ve got closets and drawers full of stuff I still wear accrued over the years. I figure when I retire I’ll go bananas and get rid of work clothing, but until then, I just keep wearing it.

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